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Most straight men don’t really know much of anything about anal sex. A lot of straight guys desire to have anal sex with a woman, but they don’t really understand what goes into it in terms of safety and comfort. This lack of knowledge extends to men who want to try anal toys for themselves.
For many men, anal toys are intriguing but also a bit on the scary side. A lot of straight guys are confused by their interest in anal toys. They wonder if having these desires might mean that they are secretly gay or bi. Rest assured, that’s not how it works. What kind of stimulation you enjoy has little to nothing to do with your sexual orientation. It’s possible to be completely heterosexual and still want to experience anal stimulation.
For some men, anal toys are scary for other reasons. One of the big worries is that anal penetration will be painful. It’s true that if not done correctly, anal sex can be uncomfortable or even painful. However, all it takes is a little bit of knowledge and preparation to make it completely enjoyable with no pain or discomfort.
Lube is the key to enjoying anal penetration for men. Anal toys tend to be much bigger than the anal opening actually is. That’s because the anus is designed to stretch and that’s actually where the pleasure of anal penetration comes from: the stretching. However, trying to force it can cause it to tear which can be painful and possibly cause tearing, which could lead to infection. Lube helps the anus stretch more easily, providing a more comfortable and pleasurable experience.
The second important thing for using anal toys for men is simply to take things slowly. The anus won’t go from tight to stretchy in the course of a couple of seconds. Gently probing with an anal toy will cause it stretch gradually until it’s ready for a full insertion. It’s not like normal sex, where full penetration happens immediately. Be patient and take your time and you can ensure that your anal toy experience is safe and painless.
There’s one other concern that’s common for many men. Anal toys seem too hard to use. Frankly, it’s difficult to reach one’s arms around one’s own backside to insert a toy and move it around. Fortunately, many anal toys don’t require any effort beyond the initial insertion to provide pleasure. Toys such as butt plugs, anal beads and prostate massagers are designed to be inserted and then left inside, where they naturally stretch the anus pleasurably or rub up against the prostate gland. This makes them very easy to use – just insert and go about your normal sex or masturbation plans.
Since they are so safe and easy, more men should be open to trying anal toys. The best place to start is with a prostate massager like the Screaming O.
