Everybody seems to be having sex nowadays. Even ten year old kids. However, sex is not all about pushing a dick into a pussy and people with that misconception don’t have a very good sex life. One of the most BEAUTIFUL parts of sex is FOREPLAY. So to help out all those people who are clueless in this area, or would like to know a little bit more about this wonderful thing, this article was created. If you and your girl/boy friend are in a place all alone, it’s best to prolong foreplay as much as possible. This heightens anticipation and also makes the body physically prepared for sex. Girls’ pussies get wet, and boys’ dicks get nice and hard for easy insertion. However, if you really want a quickie, like in a public bathroom or the backseat of a car, take your time, but not too much time.
Getting Started
So, it seems like your lucky night. Your parents aren’t home and they gave you the car. OF COURSE the first thing that comes to mind is picking up your significant other for a night of fun and pleasure. Once you’re in the house, sitting awkwardly in the sofa, things don’t seem to be that simple anymore. What you should do is not dive head first into the sex but try getting your partner aroused. Start by gently using your fingers to touch your partner (see How To Finger A Girl). Trace your fingers up and down his/her hands, neck, legs, ears and basically anywhere they don’t have clothes on. By this time your partner should start squirming with pleasure, and moving closer to you. Do it slowly and touch them lightly, it should feel as though you are hardly touching them. Trust me, it has explosive reactions.
A Step Further
Now you’re in the mood and you want to go further. No, it’s not sex time yet. Now it’s time for kissing. As your partner comes closer to you, start gently kissing their cheek while still caressing either their hand, back or neck. They should have their arms around you now and be making all indication that they want more than just these light touches. Begin kissing other places instead of their lips; the eyes, forehead, nose and ears, ESPECIALLY THE EARS! Then, teasing move in to kiss their lips and pull away. It may drive them crazy, so don’t do it for too long, but just enough to make them want it even more. Then, finally slowly place your lips on theirs, then use your tongue to gently part their lips while sucking on their tongue. Kissing creates even more sexual desire, especially when it’s done slowly and gently at first, then becomes increasingly aggressive and demanding. Prolong kissing for as much as possible! Then while kissing, (for guys) slowly put your hand under your girl’s blouse and begin massaging her breasts. If she stops kissing you and slaps you in the face, you know you’ve gone further than she wanted, but if she moans even slightly, then you’re doing a good thing. Unhook her bra, if she’s wearing one and if she will allow you to just take her blouse and the bra off. Start kissing her neck while gently massaging her nipples with your thumb and index finger. They should become pointed and firm if they weren’t already and your girl should be moaning even more. Girls, while your boyfriend does this you should still be caressing him and holding on to him. The slightest touch turns him on even more. Now begin gently sucking on your girl’s nipples. Use your tongue to encircle them, bite them, not too hard! and use your other hand to massage her other breast. If she’s not moaning her head off then something must be wrong with her. Ask her what she wants you to do instead then do it.
EVEN FURTHER: Pleasure for girls
Now the heat is definitely on. Guys should be as hard as a rock by now and girls should be getting really moist and wet. Sex is all that’s on both your minds right now but, the fun is not over yet. If you’re still on the sofa, lay your girl down and get on top of her, or if you can think straight enough to find the bedroom do it now, because you’re going to need the space. Assuming you’re on the bed, start taking your clothes off. Clothes are really annoying at this point of foreplay. If your girl is very self-conscious and prefers you work your way around the clothes then try doing that. Your aim is not just to please yourself but to please her as well and if she’s uncomfortable she won’t be pleased.
Start kissing her in a southern direction; from the neck to the breasts to the belly button. This is a sensitive area and should provide even more pleasure. Guys, start caressing and kissing the inner thighs of your girl. Move teasingly closer to her pussy, causing her to yearn for you even more.
Start gently stroking his girl’s pussy. Use one finger to slowly stroke her clit. Her pussy should be wet now, making it easier for you to get inside. Spend some time playing with her pussy. Run your fingers all along it, until she’s begging you to get inside. The clit is where the orgasm comes from, so you should make it your best friend. Beneath the clit is a really small opening (for virgins anyway)and this is where your finger and eventually your dick is supposed to go. If your girl is a virgin, use one finger first and slowly push it inside her. She will feel a sharp pain at first and may ask you to stop. If she says “stop” immediately do so. A woman is not kidding when she says “no”. If she wants to continue later, assure her you’ll be gentle.
The pain will begin to go away and the pleasure will kick in and your girl should be wiggling, moaning and begging you for more. Slide your finger in and out of her pussy at a slightly faster pace. All that mushy wetness is a good thing. For those guys into oral sex, use your tongue to gently lick her clit and kiss her pussy, while still fingering her.
Increase the pace of your finger and after a few minutes, slowly insert another finger. She will probably moan even louder, take this as a go ahead to go faster and deeper into her pussy until she’s moaning so loud the neighbors could hear. Continue sucking at her clit and when she climaxes, decrease the tempo, as her clit will be a bit sensitive. Kiss around her pussy, her thighs and her stomach for a while.
EVEN FURTHER: Pleasure for Guys
For those times when the girl is in control, and you’ve made your way to the bedroom, get on top of your man and start kissing him again, deeper and even more aggressively than before. Kiss his neck then begin sucking his nipples. Guys’ nipples are just as sensitive as your own. Most guys don’t really moan so if he’s quiet continue, his firm hard-on should be enough proof that he’s enjoying himself. Then kiss all the way down to his dick. Use your hand to caress it first, by stroking it up and down and especially playing with the head or the top of it. Use your tongue to lick the top, like an ice-cream cone, then lick up and down the sides while still using your hand to caress it. Try not to bite him, it’s more pain than pleasure. Keep sucking his dick in co-ordination with your hand movements, guys like the consistency. Lick the sides of it even more and try to look him in the eyes a couple times. Increase the tempo and soon there should be warm, sticky cum in your mouth. (If you don’t want him to cum in your mouth, let him know before hand.) You can either swallow it or spit it into a napkin or something.
Finishing touches
Now you’ve both gotten off and you could always stop and return to simply making out or you could take it a step further and actually have sex. If you decide to have sex, which normally just happens anyway, use a condom! 🙂
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