Why is makeup sex sooooo damn good!?
It sucks fighting with your significant other; really, it does. The two of you suffer through the evening after a blow out and may not even speak to each other. Sure, they say “Don’t go to bed mad…” but most of us understand that to be a reality not many of us can live up to.
Couples are bound to argue and disagree. Unfortunately, sometimes it leaves one or both of you pissed off for the entire evening and doing your own thing in different areas of the house for hours. You give each other somewhat of the silent treatment with the only dialogue between you being what is necessary to keep yourself from saying something you will regret. This is not a bad thing of course!
Sometimes this is essential to sort out your thoughts and cool off (or allow them to). Come the next day, you can approach the situation without anger and be able to effectively argue your case and make your point.
What comes next? Awesome makeup sex! You know how it works, you’re still pissed but he manages to give you that coy look or attempts to make you laugh (although you don’t want to you know you can’t help yourself!). Or she bats her eyes with a sexy little grin that instantly turns you on. Doesn’t matter who was right or wrong; at this point it may be neither of you and it’s simply time to put the boxing gloves away and bring out the lube…
So what is it that makes sex after an argument so frigin’ fantastic?
Of course, I am no scientist (God help us all if I were 😉 but if I were to guess, I would boldly claim it’s the pure raw emotion surrounding us during and after a disagreement. We are so intense about our standing on any certain situation; when we disagree on a matter, all of our passions are enhanced because we so desperately want to prove our point. Or at least make sure they respect it.
We are so worked up about everything (even though we have calmed down a bit it is still itching in our brain) we can’t help but release that energy. How better to do that than to get naked and turn all that negative energy into something really positive? We need that… I think it’s inbred in all of us.
When we argue with, or rather get stressed out by, other people in our lives, we suck it up and later release that negative energy by doing other things we enjoy, be it a cocktail, music, writing, or what ever your poison. In a relationship, we are so lucky to be able to help each other out in releasing negative energy and making up in the process. While we may cause the initial surge of negative energy to begin with, sometimes a good disagreement can be healthy, particularly when it ends with clothes flying and breaths panting
Benefits of make-up sex
